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After several years of marriage, it's normal to feel each other couples bored, especially about matters of the bed. And in this condition are prone to turn to a couple of others or cheating to get divorced.
To anticipate this sort of thing so couples need to know a few tricks to sexual arousal flared again as Timesofindia reported on Thursday (06/12/2012) following.
1. Change sexual routine
Take your time to analyze your sexual activity, whether predictable or more like a race to reach orgasm with a partner? If the condition is so, it means you are stuck in a boring sexual routine.
So do something different from your habit that. For example, if you're used to making love at night, try in the morning or afternoon. Or if you always make love in bed, jajal quickie in the kitchen or in the bath together. It could also replace the variety of sexual positions to give a new freshness to your sex life.
2. Show your sexy side which hidden
Surprise him with suddenly naked or wearing a G-string when she was in the house or take her shopping for sexy underwear together. Because men tend to be aroused by what is seen by their visual senses.
3. Take time which is enough to making love
Although sex was fun to do spontaneously and with unbridled passion, often the pressures of work, kids and managing the household work makes you do not have time for sex.
For that, start by giving him a clue that you are ready to make love to her. Send SMS or email that is suggestive and naughty all day. Both will encourage the emergence of spontaneity that can build up the mood. After all the anticipation and planning something with friends can be a fun thing.
To anticipate this sort of thing so couples need to know a few tricks to sexual arousal flared again as Timesofindia reported on Thursday (06/12/2012) following.
1. Change sexual routine
Take your time to analyze your sexual activity, whether predictable or more like a race to reach orgasm with a partner? If the condition is so, it means you are stuck in a boring sexual routine.
So do something different from your habit that. For example, if you're used to making love at night, try in the morning or afternoon. Or if you always make love in bed, jajal quickie in the kitchen or in the bath together. It could also replace the variety of sexual positions to give a new freshness to your sex life.
2. Show your sexy side which hidden
Surprise him with suddenly naked or wearing a G-string when she was in the house or take her shopping for sexy underwear together. Because men tend to be aroused by what is seen by their visual senses.
3. Take time which is enough to making love
Although sex was fun to do spontaneously and with unbridled passion, often the pressures of work, kids and managing the household work makes you do not have time for sex.
For that, start by giving him a clue that you are ready to make love to her. Send SMS or email that is suggestive and naughty all day. Both will encourage the emergence of spontaneity that can build up the mood. After all the anticipation and planning something with friends can be a fun thing.
4. Remember beautiful time new bride
When newly married, the couple is always seen as inseparable like stamps. Even most of the reported recall the first years of their marriage with great nostalgia. Memories is what can help you and your family out of boredom.
Try to repeat the beautiful memories. For example, starting with a plan to eat dinner together, remember when you first met, what attracted you to each other and your first date. Can also remember the sexual connection that occurs between you and your spouse, names of animals that are kept together or jokes that only you and your partner know. Add to sensual music or favorite songs you and your partner.
You can also re-create the sensation of making love to do it in places such challenging public places and sharing intimate stories with a partner.
5. Talking with your partner
Never go to sleep angry. Moreover, one of the key outstanding relationship is to talk openly and honestly to your partner. Talk about the things you do not like the spouse and vice versa, such as habits that interfere with each other.
Just do not forget to discuss the positive character pairs, including communicate what is important in maintaining a relationship like talking about why you and your partner love each other. This method is guaranteed to make the passion of the couple will live.
6. Keep the mystery
Sometimes when you have lived as a couple for many years, so you or he's likely to feel too comfortable and be yourself. Though the little mysteries in the relationship can actually brighten your sex life. As much as possible keep it.
7. Indulge your senses
Transform your bedroom decor to be more impressed by adding erotic silk and satin fabrics with various colors that make you feel sexy. Cook your favorite aphrodisiac food with friends by using herbs that can stimulate you both. It could also share a bathroom which has been filled with aroma of scented candles or scented oils.
If you manage to take the time to indulge your senses, your libido will soon be charged and you are ready to re-shake bed with your partner.
Source: Timesofindia
